...uncomfortable truth? Since many women are having sex with the same few men, since the number of sexual partners is more evenly distributed among women while with men, a few have many, many partners, while most have relatively few, and since the men having many partners tend to be the most attractive, most men will have to accept a reality they may not find too appealing...
Most men will end up married to a woman who has had more, and more attractive partners than he has. That's just the way the numbers pan out.
(Women who want to dispute this, please don't bother: this isn't even addressed to you.)
So the question is: how does a man deal with that reality? How does his ego accept that? I mean: once he gets past the posturing (and for most men, it is posturing) that he's some sort of "player" but is somehow going to end up marrying a virgin?
Maybe you're an exception or maybe you're fooling yourself. I am just describing the situation confronting the average man, not all men.
Marrying a woman who is not a virgin and marrying a woman who has had more and more attractive partners than you are not really the same thing. I am asking about the latter. I regard the former as something most reasonable men have long since accepted.
Most men will end up married to a woman who has had more, and more attractive partners than he has. That's just the way the numbers pan out.
(Women who want to dispute this, please don't bother: this isn't even addressed to you.)
So the question is: how does a man deal with that reality? How does his ego accept that? I mean: once he gets past the posturing (and for most men, it is posturing) that he's some sort of "player" but is somehow going to end up marrying a virgin?
Maybe you're an exception or maybe you're fooling yourself. I am just describing the situation confronting the average man, not all men.
Marrying a woman who is not a virgin and marrying a woman who has had more and more attractive partners than you are not really the same thing. I am asking about the latter. I regard the former as something most reasonable men have long since accepted.