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martyleo12

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he got laid off. im not going to desert him bcause he is going through a rough time. i mean what if that was me and he left me? i dont know what i would do, i would be devestated. we live together, we have animals together, we support one another. its like a marriage but i dont believe in the paperwork, and dont have the money for the ceremony. so consider it that for the time being.

i was able to afford the car.

/me le sighs

when i turned 18 i was living with my mom she was going through a divorce so she moved us far away from home into this big house she was able to afford (until she got laid off) anyway in that time i was going to college, had a steady b/f, was working fulltime, and was attending college.

then.. she lost her job, moved in with her b/f and left me homeless. me and my older sister moved to queens. things were fine there. after a while she met a guy and decided to move in with him (she is now getting married to him). left me homeless, yet again. i bounced around from friend to friend, house to house. i couldnt afford my own place and my mom had moved to florida. after a while me and my friend mary decided to go to florida. she had a baby in new york so she wound up leaving me in florida. i couldnt find a job, i was depressed, had no friends there, my b/f was in new york and life sucked. so i took a one month long vacation back to new york which turned into me moving in with my b/f and his family. his grandpa is like 80 and loves to yell, his mom is stuck in her ways. im 22 i need to be the authority in my household. ive never ever had somebody tell me what to do like these people. so we moved out. our first apartment there was an electricle fire. the fireman called the town. the town came and said its an illegal apartment and the landllord needs to fix it and we need to get out. so we moved back in with his mom until we could find a new place. thats where i am now.

life isnt always as simple as it seems
 
That sucks.

The bright side is:

1) Even if you did plump up a little, you are still the same person. Don't ever let anyone make you think or feel differently. If somebody does judge in that way, then maybe you don't really need them.

2) Life does in fact come with some lemons. We all like lemon-aid, right? Life wasn't meant to be easy. If it was, you wouldn't appreciate the things you've busted your ass to acquire. Once you hit bottom, the only way to go is up.

It gehts better, kiddo.

Trust me. :)
 
Icka, start making your boyfriend hunt for jobs like crazy. Have him land anything he can until he finds what he needs.

You should look at places in New Jersey...I could never afford a place on LI until I got a stable form of income.
 
I see, but if you're back living with his mother, your rent is 1200 you said? (just remembering, lazy to go back and look)


That seems shit high, (we own 2 and rent them out here in Michigan, rent is 495 a month.) especially since it's your boyfriends mother.


Is your boyfriend out looking for a job?


The only reason I suggested anything about breaking up with him is becuase in your original post you seemed like you were screaming about your boyfriend as much as you were the whole shitty situation. If you are having doubts about him, you should leave him. It may turn out to be the best. But, if not, hang in tight and I'm sure things will get better with time.


Best of luck.
 
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