miss anime
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ok, now i seem to have gotten myself into trouble. i received a letter from my ex asking for mediation to occur, but im currently organising mediation through rdm. so i rang the place to say i was already making arrangements to do mediation so my daughterss father can meet her for the first time. problem is that the mediation place acting for my ex told me that because id rather go through rdm than through them (if i went through them id have to drive 300kms every time there was a meeting) they will be issuing him a certificate to take me straight to court (for refusing his mediation coz he got in first). dd is now over 10 months old. so i dont get the point of him being in a hurry now. if he takes me to court does that mean the judge will give him what he wants? or do i keep organising the RDM mediation?