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jadeybabey87
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Me and my twin sister are 21, we have always been very close, but over the past nine months or so we have been arguing constantly, because she seems to think that she has to get involved in my personal life all the time.
I split up with my ex in November, after he cheated on me, and obviously i was very upset at the time, and she did not like to see me that way, but since then, i have remained friends with my ex, and from time to time we see eachother and will go for a drink or to the football etc.. and she really gets annoyed because she says she now hates him although when we were together she didnt have a problem with him.
She has a baby and a fiance so I don't understand why she always has to get involved, I try to tell her to just get on with her life, and that what i do with mine, is my business not hers.
Her fiance is in the Navy and has been on a ship since January so she hasnt seen him, and she gets very bored and I think that is why she meddles, but It is really starting to get on my nerves. She is always on facebook and likes to broadcast it to everybody if we have an arguement and has even threatend to punch my face in on it, because I called her pathetic because she made a stupid comment about a picture of my ex bf, which i though was very immature...
It is upsetting my dad and my brothers and sister that we keep arguing all the time, but I have tried to explain to them, that it is not my choice to argue, but hers for all picking fights with me just because she no longer likes my ex.
Im fuming with her because my friends text me last night saying she was slagging me off in her facebook statuses and threatening me. I've had enough, I dont know what to do about her...
We keep going through these phases and then I forgive her, and we're friends again, then she will do something again to cause an arguement and we will fall out and then a few weeks later be friends again, then a few weeks later fall out and i have had enuf of this pattern that keeps happening.. what can i do... ??? xx
I split up with my ex in November, after he cheated on me, and obviously i was very upset at the time, and she did not like to see me that way, but since then, i have remained friends with my ex, and from time to time we see eachother and will go for a drink or to the football etc.. and she really gets annoyed because she says she now hates him although when we were together she didnt have a problem with him.
She has a baby and a fiance so I don't understand why she always has to get involved, I try to tell her to just get on with her life, and that what i do with mine, is my business not hers.
Her fiance is in the Navy and has been on a ship since January so she hasnt seen him, and she gets very bored and I think that is why she meddles, but It is really starting to get on my nerves. She is always on facebook and likes to broadcast it to everybody if we have an arguement and has even threatend to punch my face in on it, because I called her pathetic because she made a stupid comment about a picture of my ex bf, which i though was very immature...
It is upsetting my dad and my brothers and sister that we keep arguing all the time, but I have tried to explain to them, that it is not my choice to argue, but hers for all picking fights with me just because she no longer likes my ex.
Im fuming with her because my friends text me last night saying she was slagging me off in her facebook statuses and threatening me. I've had enough, I dont know what to do about her...
We keep going through these phases and then I forgive her, and we're friends again, then she will do something again to cause an arguement and we will fall out and then a few weeks later be friends again, then a few weeks later fall out and i have had enuf of this pattern that keeps happening.. what can i do... ??? xx