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errandservice216
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My girlfriend and I are having a debate. We have a child together. She believes that if we separate then we should continue to do things as a family even if I get married.
I don't think that is a good idea. I believe that situation will cause tons of confusion. I believe that my obligations are to my child. I also believe that it would be very disrespectful to my wife if I decided to still do things as a family with my ex and my kid.
My child would still come first and foremost. Nothing stands between that relationship. I just dont see how my girlfriend can possibly think it's right to continue to do things as a family if I got married to another woman.
She says that I should explain my situation to my wife and if she agrees with me doing something like that then it's okay and if she happens to get jealous just tell her to come along on the outings. It just does not seem right to me.
I want others to tell me who's right here.
I don't think that is a good idea. I believe that situation will cause tons of confusion. I believe that my obligations are to my child. I also believe that it would be very disrespectful to my wife if I decided to still do things as a family with my ex and my kid.
My child would still come first and foremost. Nothing stands between that relationship. I just dont see how my girlfriend can possibly think it's right to continue to do things as a family if I got married to another woman.
She says that I should explain my situation to my wife and if she agrees with me doing something like that then it's okay and if she happens to get jealous just tell her to come along on the outings. It just does not seem right to me.
I want others to tell me who's right here.