Me and my boyfriend were debating whether...?

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I was too old and worldly to go out with him?

(lol, he's standing over my shoulder watching me type, GO AWAY you loser! haha)

Anyway, I'm eighteen and he's fifteen.

I've left school, he's still in school.

He's a virgin and (he told me to say this) I've had too much sex.

He says I've corrupted his innocence, lol.

I'm openly gay and flamboyant, whereas he is introverted, closeted and yes, I'm saying it, geeky. (Not that there's anything wrong with that John).

So opinions? Am I corrupting my younger and for the wiser boyfriend?

We haven't had sex yet so I haven't completely ruined you!

Hmmm, I don't think anyone will answer this love, this is more of a personal joke between us rather than a serious or standard question!

Nope, he wants answers.
Sorry John, you're too young for me!

*Kisses*
I guess I would really set you off if I said we lived together...

But we sleep in seperate rooms because I live with my mum and he hates his parents.
John says thankyou Louis!
Voice of reason!

We enjoyed your answer, it made us laugh heaps, thanks! That was really funny.

Michael, thankyou as well for your wisdom, you are warranted in your skepticism, I also think about those things as well (except for cheating on him).
 
aha aww u guys sound cute together :). pff and so wat if he's 15, its only 3 years, big deal. if u really like each other then it should'nt matter.
 
Hey, if you guys like each other and get along then who gives a damn about age.

3 years difference = no big deal. at all. christ.
 
When I was 18 I was totally infatuated with a 16 year old named John. I say go for it, as long as you won't get arrested. Don't think of it as corrupting, think of it as teaching. My first time was with a virgin and it was horrible! I think it's much better to lose it to an experienced person.
 
In many states your relationship would put you at risk of being arrested. I would be very careful if I were you.


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Personally I think a mature 15 year old could work with an 18 year old, but...

Do you feel healthy enough to do this? Not too many hours ago you were upset at feeling too thin and not eating properly.

If you've had lots of sex, are you able to keep to John and no one else but John? If you can't be monogamous with him, don't even think about it because he deserves your love -- and it would be thoughtless of you to break his good heart by sleeping with other guys.

Are you positive you have no sexual illnesses of any kind?

Can you be mature, whole, well and caring for this young man? Or do you need a bit more time to get yourself together first?

So actually, my question is whether you are ready for John...? If you are not really ready, don't be hasty. Wait, take your time and get ready so you can be the awesome boyfriend that John deserves.

John deserves the very best.

And I think you are pretty awesome too. I'm just saying...be cautious. Much is at stake here.

Love to you both! Hugs!

EDIT: I'd suggest you see a physician, make sure you are tested for STIs, and then work on feeling good about your eating habits and body. If after, say, four months you are making excellent progress, and feel whole and together and happy, and are quite sure you will keep yourself for John -- and if he also feels ready and happy about the idea at that time -- then do it. It would be a nice way to begin the autumn in preparation for winter cuddling and snuggling together to keep warm. =)
 
sweet.
Say good-bye to not knowing when the truth in my whole life began
Say good-bye to not knowing how to cry you taught me that
and i'll remember the love that you gave me now that I'm standing on my own I'll remember the way that you changed me I'll remember
Inside I was a child that could not mend a broken wing
Outside I looked for a way to teach my heart to sing
I learned to let go of the illusion that we can possess
I learned to let go, I travel in stillness And I'll remember happiness
 
18 and 15 ?....Well dunno how things are in your state, but here in Texas, if a 18 year old trys to date a 15 year old. the 18 year old goes to jail....Leave the kid Alone
 
AWW you two sound adorable together. No your not too old, and no he's not to young. It's only three years difference and I'm pretty sure the laws of consent are different in Australia. But otherwise you two seem adorable together.

Haha you're welcome.
 
Wow this is a great reality show! :)

Is John too young?
Will he stay a virgin?
Will lif/lov forget John who is at school?
Is John really gay or is he corrupted?
Will the law break up their love?
Can lif/lov stop his sexual prowless ways?
Will 'Louis' and John get together?


Tune in next week to see boys gone wild! ;)
 
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