Me and my boyfriend one night at a dance, and he pushes me? what do i do

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and how do i react to this viloince? I have boyfriend,and he told me his dad beats him,and i belive it.My friend introduced me to him,and four months after that she said that his dad hits him and his mom but doesnt to his other two girls. One night,when me and him were at a dance,he was fixing to get into a fight,so i went over and helped him,and he looks at me and pushes me.Later on that night,i got home and i asked him why he pushed me and he said he didnt notice he did and says sorry. My mother found out about it and made me break up with him. Me and my boyfriend break up alot. He says his in love with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He also has anger issuse,and i told him he needed to get help and he said he would change for me. But,when we grow up to have children,i dont want him hitting me or my children. What should i do?
 
It can be a hereditary problem: if his dad does it, then there's a possibility he might. If he sees his dad hitting his mom, he's going to grow up with the idea that it's okay to hit the woman in your life, because his father does it. If your mother knows about him hitting you, it's done-zo to begin with, she will NEVER like him. I suggest you stay away from him as much as you love him, your life could be on the line later on and if he loves you that much, he would never think about laying a hand on you.

Whenever I'm with someone, if he does something that I think is bad but I'm not entirely sure if it's break up worthy, I think about my friends: Would I want my best girlfriend or my little sister dating a guy who would do that to her? No? Then he's not good enough for me if he's not good enough for my friends. You don't want to be that girl that everyone said I told you so.
 
DUMP THIS ONE nothing but problems ahead here im afraid...and danger too...be wise...move on before you get hurt!!
 
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