me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex?

C

Cupcake

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if i were you i would wait. yes, sex is fun, but it's not worth a baby you aren't ready for or the pain you have to go through if you two don't work out. i've been through it, and it's not good. so from someone who's been there...wait. as hard as it is, it'll be worth it.
 
i am 14 on the 28th and my boyfriend and i were thinking of having sex now for a long time. but we wanted to wait till we were both 14 so on my birthday i am going to his house while his parents are at work.
we have been together for a year and 3 months and we both love each other very much (:
i am ready and so is he. we are using a condom but any advice or tips would be great thanks !!!!! xxx
 
I think for you want the have sex make sure your parents know and if the tell you that you can make sure you use protection.
 
Take it from me. Sex at 14 is not fun. Too many consequences and 14 year old guys make it hurt because they don't know what they're doing.
If you insist on doing it, don't take off your underwear. It's called outercourse. It's basically making out in bed 95% naked.
Much, much funner, plus it's not THAT bad..
 
Go for it! if you are both sure your ready then there is no problem!.
Make sure you use contraception so you don't end up having a baby!
xx
Byee
 
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