maybe life would be better if we quit?

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we've been together for one and a half year, but i dont think he is putting as much effort as i do to keep this relationship interesting. he almost never asks me for a date. our first date in 2010 and last so far was on valentine's day, where i paid all my expenses. not that its a big problem, thats how we usually do it, but he earns 3 times more than me, and i dunno, just wanted to have a romantic date, like being invited by an old school gentleman he has never been. and lately, we are always arguing on how i feel like he doesnt really care about me being with him. the past 6 months we live in different cities, and i come to visit him almost every weekend, mostly cos he has his own place. its my winter break and ive been staying with him for a month, and we did nothing cept the val day and shopping last week so far. he goes to work everyday, and when he comes home he would be busy with the internet. on weekends he is busy with his band. i never ever ask him to cancel any band practice, but few days ago he said he wouldnt go for practice so he could spend time with me today. but he left anyway an hour ago for the practice. its disappointing, i feel unappreciated, and before, ive been asking if he wanted to quit for several times, but he always said no. and i cant make myself break him up.
he is my first long term boyfriend, and we understand each others jokes.
 
If you stick with him, you'll just have to accept that you're not going to have a romantic relationship. Some people just don't do romance. Don't start a fight, or anything, but ask him to think about the relationship you are going to have. Don't make him answer right away; let him think about it.

Then it'll be up to you, whether or not to stay with him.

It kinda sounds like your guy doesn't really want to put your relationship into his life. If he says he does, ask him to buy you a rose once in a while just so you'll know he's thinking about you.

I'm sorry I don't have a better answer for you. Good luck.
 
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