Mature Answers: My boyfriend and I, TERRIBLE sex life ... what to do?

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lemonloveless

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My boyfriend and I get along famously and I really like him and think that he is a wonderful person, the only thing is our sex life is terrible. He doesn't really turn me on, he has terrible stamina, and it is genuinely an overall unpleasant experience. Is there anything he and I can do to make it better? I am afraid this will be our downfall.
 
Hopefully the both of you are willing to work on this. Sex can play an important, vital role in a relationship. To some people it is not that important but if it is to you, then it needs to improve. Your bf needs to get into shape! And not just for better sex. You guys need to talk to each other. Tell what you like. What you fantasize about. You should tell your bf (nicely) what it is you don't find attractive about him/ the sex. Too slow, too fast, too hard, too soft, places you like, places you don't like, what he says, what he doesn't say, weather he acts like he wants to be doing it etc. Try to choose a time of day when he's not worn out yet. Get some books on sex or a movie and talk about it. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
 
Hopefully the both of you are willing to work on this. Sex can play an important, vital role in a relationship. To some people it is not that important but if it is to you, then it needs to improve. Your bf needs to get into shape! And not just for better sex. You guys need to talk to each other. Tell what you like. What you fantasize about. You should tell your bf (nicely) what it is you don't find attractive about him/ the sex. Too slow, too fast, too hard, too soft, places you like, places you don't like, what he says, what he doesn't say, weather he acts like he wants to be doing it etc. Try to choose a time of day when he's not worn out yet. Get some books on sex or a movie and talk about it. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
 
It sounds like one of you guys has to take the initiative. I've been in a relationship with someone who was my best friend in the world, but the sex was awful. It really is a heart-breaking situation if you let it be. But don't!!!

Attack the ears, or, go down on him...initiate the oral sex, and it all goes from there. In bed, once he does finish, don't let him roll over and fall asleep. Give it a few minutes, and start playing with him, and maybe take a trip down on him to start round two.
 
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