Match.com confusion???!?

Mona Shire

New member
I'm new to the dating world especially with women. I've never had a girlfriend, so I'm trying online dating. I'm not bad looking and often been told that I am cute but have no game and is incredibly coy with women. To my surprise I had 2 beautiful women winked at me?
One girl winked at me,after I favourited her. After a day, I winked back. For a while I waited 3 days to email her, asking if she would like to chat with me on IM via Match (No response).I waited another 2 days to email her again apologizing(knowing the minute I emailed her it was a mistake) for the late email. I just wanted to send one more email to see if she was interested, so I can stop favouriting this girl and not get my hopes up. The minute I de-favouriting this girl after a couple of days not responding to my second email, she suddenly disappeared from my "who viewed me" timeline. My assumption was that she liked that I was interested after the wink and her ego was the purpose of her wink(I don't think she was interested)
The second girl winked at me, learning from the previous situation. I just decided to wink back after a day and don't email her. I waited for something, the next day she disappeared from my timeline as well? What did I do wrong? I'm confused, what happened? Am I being toyed for their self esteem or ego?
 
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