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omcdano
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my wife has lost interest in sex and she says its because she does not love me as much because of all the resentment built up over the years over the pressure to have sex and also that things have not been very god in the family and marriage. She says i need to do more family things with the family and kids and things need to get better in the marriage because of all the fighting and issues over the past 8 years. She says i cant go even 2 weeks without bringing up the issues again about no sex or other things and it keeps stressing her out and were back to round one. so if she withholds sex for 4-6 months i cant say anything or she will say see your bringing it up again. I also told her that i hope she is really saying what she means and if all goes good and things improve wiht us and the family that she will want sex again and she says yes but how do i know she is not just buying time and if i cant bring it up again, how will i know ?? I know women need a reason to have sex and men really dont but if women need something from a man and they want something really bad, they will have sex so what can a married man take away form his wife when most married women have it all anyways. I may just say no in the future if she does make a move for sex just to let her see she cant do this to me but not sure if that will make things worse ?? How do i know she is really serious about fixing the problem if i do my part so i am not taken just for the security of the home and family and money? She makes way more money than me so i am not sure what i can take away. If i threaten too leave she may give in but that would be crappy sex and i dont want that. Sex used to be very good and nice but no any more. If i do nice things for her or too her she thinks i just just want sex like if i become more involled at home or rub her back or do the dishes.... what gives ??
my wife has lost interest in sex and she says its because she does not love me as much because of all the resentment built up over the years over the pressure to have sex and also that things have not been very god in the family and marriage. She says i need to do more family things with the family and kids and things need to get better in the marriage because of all the fighting and issues over the past 8 years. She says i cant go even 2 weeks without bringing up the issues again about no sex or other things and it keeps stressing her out and were back to round one. so if she withholds sex for 4-6 months i cant say anything or she will say see your bringing it up again. I also told her that i hope she is really saying what she means and if all goes good and things improve wiht us and the family that she will want sex again and she says yes but how do i know she is not just buying time and if i cant bring it up again, how will i know ?? I know women need a reason to have sex and men really dont but if women need something from a man and they want something really bad, they will have sex so what can a married man take away form his wife when most married women have it all anyways. I may just say no in the future if she does make a move for sex just to let her see she cant do this to me but not sure if that will make things worse ?? How do i know she is really serious about fixing the problem if i do my part so i am not taken just for the security of the home and family and money? She makes way more money than me so i am not sure what i can take away. If i threaten too leave she may give in but that would be crappy sex and i dont want that. Sex used to be very good and nice but no any more. If i do nice things for her or too her she thinks i just just want sex like if i become more involled at home or rub her back or do the dishes.... what gives ??