I think the biggest misconception about Marilyn Monroe was that she was nothing more than a blonde bimbo. Nothing could be further from the truth. The whole "dumb blonde" persona, was an act! She was acting for the camera and was a fantastic comedienne, she never got the recognition she deserved for her acting talents. Even in the few roles where she got to play more dramatic parts ie "Don't Bother To Knock, Niagara, River Of No Return, The Misfits" etc, she was fantastic.. honestly, fantastic. but the public and her bosses, didn't want to see this side of Marilyn, they loved her more playful side in throwaway comedies, hence why she was stuck playing the dumb blonde character she grew to resent.
It was rare that the public got to see the real Marilyn, Marilyn knew what her public wanted.. a star.. so she played up to 'Hollywood Goddess' image in interviews and personal appearances, I guess she used this as a mask to hide behind whatever else she was going through in her personal life.
Marilyn by any means, was never a very happy human being, 3 failed marriages, no children, no stable family background and only a handful of people she could really trust. Her life was filled with rejection and hurt and she suffered extreme anxiety attacks and had no self esteem or confidence, but through it all, she always managed to rise above it all and keep smiling. That's why I love her so much!
I think Marilyn would be so humbled by the fact that she's considered such an icon of today. She never felt loved, or appreciated in her own time, so she wouldn't feel worthy of such praise nearly 50years after her death. Don't get me wrong, she LOVED her fans and they loved her, but she never felt that same feeling of adoration from her bosses or co-workers.
One of the best Marilyn related things I have ever done was travel to Hollywood last sept to pay my respects at her grave, it was a very emotional, humbling experience. I'm only 25 and I became a Marilyn fan in 2002... FOURTY years after her death, that's what amazes me, all those years after her death and she still manages to gain new fans that are as obsessed as I am! lol, that's a true testament to her everlasting appeal and popularity.
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