I have been married for 4 years now, been with my husband for 8 years. So i am 28 he is 29 latetly i have been having a more sex drive than my husband. well i thik it has always been like this.. now society has told us that guys think about sex every 6 seconds, that they want it all the time blah blah blah.. i can honestly say that a whole month can go by without nothing... to me that is very very very very frustrating.. every time i ask him what is wrong he simply says he isnt into it or that hes too tired ( hes a car mechanic dn carried heavy stuff all day) its not an excuse but hey im going with it. im seriously thinking of having a guy friend do me a favor but i dont want to have one if i want to do it with my husband. Now i know he dosent have someone on the side since i know where he is constantly (he works with my brother ) is this normal? if not is there a drug i can slip him to lift his sex drive?? i hav no idea what to do..guys anything??
PS we have no kids so.....its not like they are "in the way"
PS we have no kids so.....its not like they are "in the way"