low sex drive remedy?

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after having 2 kids in the past 3 years and a cancer scare my sex drive has hit an all time low, it used to be pretty normal but now i have no interest in it and i only do it now for my husband but try to initiate it sometimes so he feels like i want it too. but most of the time i would rather just cuddle or sleep. is there any remedy for this. im not on the pill so its nothing to do with that.
 
This probably sounds stupid, but it has proven to work for me and people I have suggested it to. Try talking about sexual stuff to each other. Like, when you two are apart during the day, take a few minutes break from your stuff and just talk on the phone about doing things to each other. Might feel a little awkward at first, but once you get past that, you will feel like young kids in love again. lol. And then when you get home and are alone, you're more than ready after ALL that foreplay. Hehe.

Also, I'm not sure if this works for you too, but I find that spontaneity is a HUGE turn-on. Me and an ex went to see a movie once (you know, just a normal date to enjoy each other's company) and the next thing you know, we aren't so interested in watching. haha.

Hope this helps!!! Good luck!!!
 
get grannie to have the kids or a very good friend and get your husband to take you to a beautiful hotel for a weekend lots of walks and wine in the eve will sort it out temporally but as your kids are young what you describe it so common,it will get better with time.
 
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