Love and sex, sex and love.?

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Finding a definition for love I found that, yes it is a feeling. Sex also seems to create and reaffirm love.

My question is; is there is difference between love and sex. Or sex and love. It is like asking the chicken and the egg question. Which comes first? Does love come first and then sex? Or does sex come first and then love?

I have a girlfriend, we spend our week nights chatting to maintain our friendship and relationship. We both work and I do not have a car, so meeting during the week at the moment is a challenge. In the weekends we spend a lot of time naked and making love or having sex. Is this wrong? I am not confused. Also during the week the sense of love I feel and know is not as strong as in the weekends. Why? Well for obvious reasons, the sex is really good. Again is this wrong?

Control in the disguise of love. My girlfriend is a little insecure, not in an overbearing way. For example, I am saving to buy a car. My goal is to have $2000 before I begin bidding. Next week I will have $1500. I asked my girlfriend if I and we could look at cars and start bidding. She told me No and gave me no reason why. Do we all do what our loved ones say we should do? If we do not, does that mean we do not love them or that they do not love us?
 
Sex just comes with love, as long as the love is there, It is not wrong to try to get Intimate when you are with her, Just think to yourself do you love who she is or just the sex? Also, Your loved ones should want you to succeed, and maybe starting bidding she thinks will fail? No we don't all do what our loved ones say we should, it is your own choice, she has not forbid you, just because you don't choose there opinion does not mean you don't love them, i just simply means that you would rather do what you want,
 
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