Loud or quiet during sex?

Well if you love him and the sex is good then whats wrong with giving him a little extra twist. Its just like putting on lingerie to turn him on its not hard. my husband is this way he will tell me talk to me and i do. Don't feel ashamed you start feeling good and its sexy and it will come natural just loosen up.
 
I'm very vocal during sex...especially right before or during the big O. I think whether you're vocal or not have to come naturally. You don't want to be barking orders, but rather let your partner knows that you are enjoying what you are doing.

You don't want to focus on how you sound, rather how much fun you're having and how you're pleasing your partner sexually.

You can start by telling him what you like in a soft voice and then build from there. It has to be what comes naturally.

(I have no idea why people ohhh and ahhhh over cute baby clothes for example, and are mum and/or cold in bed. I'd think it would be easier to moan in bed than after taking the 1st bite of your favorite dessert you haven't had in ages. Go figure.)
 
Your man is an idiot. You are who you are and at least you want sex, right? So, quiet is fine. Actually I do not like noisy, it is irritating to me and stupid so I think you are o.k.
I would though, with that said, talk to him about what you want while you are in a sexual situation as that is good to know your body and say what you like and dont like.
Dont be a sexual doormat for him, if he complains now I probably would just leave. He is not the man for you, really.
Good Luck,
I remain,
Your assistant
 
Say "yes, or yeah when it feels good, when he's hitting the spot or the like".

It's like coaching "Go Johnny, you can DO IT, score score."
 
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