Hi,
I have a few symptoms that I think may be herpes. Yesterday I went to a clinic for a Herpes select blood test. I will know my results in 2-3 days. I understand that I could receive a false negative depending on when i was infected.
If I did contract the herpes virus it is coming as a bit of a shock. I have been with the same partner for 12 years. Approximately, 9-10 years ago I had a relationship with another woman. Is it possible that I contracted herpes that long ago and I never had an outbreak? Reading about how common and widespread herpes is I understand I could have contracted it then but why wouldn't I have had an outbreak sooner? I suppose the other possible scenerio is that I contracted it from my partner. As long as I've known her she does get cold sores so oral herpes is present in her body. Could I have contracted her oral herpes through oral sex which then spread to me as genital herpes? Or could I have contracted the herpes virus 9 years ago and am just getting my first outbreak? I've read that a herpes outbreak can be related to stress and I am under alot of stress right now in my job.
I'm very confused and don't want to jump to any conclusions - I'm just hoping for some answers to make sense of this whole thing.
Thanks
I have a few symptoms that I think may be herpes. Yesterday I went to a clinic for a Herpes select blood test. I will know my results in 2-3 days. I understand that I could receive a false negative depending on when i was infected.
If I did contract the herpes virus it is coming as a bit of a shock. I have been with the same partner for 12 years. Approximately, 9-10 years ago I had a relationship with another woman. Is it possible that I contracted herpes that long ago and I never had an outbreak? Reading about how common and widespread herpes is I understand I could have contracted it then but why wouldn't I have had an outbreak sooner? I suppose the other possible scenerio is that I contracted it from my partner. As long as I've known her she does get cold sores so oral herpes is present in her body. Could I have contracted her oral herpes through oral sex which then spread to me as genital herpes? Or could I have contracted the herpes virus 9 years ago and am just getting my first outbreak? I've read that a herpes outbreak can be related to stress and I am under alot of stress right now in my job.
I'm very confused and don't want to jump to any conclusions - I'm just hoping for some answers to make sense of this whole thing.
Thanks