My ex and I dated for 4 years. We broke up nearly 2 years ago. We've been in fairly constant contact since then. We talk on the phone, text, etc. Probably 2-3 times a week for 20 minutes or more each time. We call each other when anything important happens in our lives. In 2010 we exchanged birthday and Christmas presents for the first time since our breakup. We met up to exchange presents and it was really like the old days when we used exchange presents and it was fun and easy.
She knows how I feel. She dodges the issues is the best way to put it. She did question me a few months ago on who a girl that was appearing on my facebook was. She also rang me one night in a weird mood after I'd added a girl we'd known when we were dating who was a sticking point for us. (She had also added that girl the same night). Obviously she was the one who did the breaking up. We kinda lost the intimacy in our relationship. But can I show her we can get that back? Can I even get her back?
I'd love some feedback here. Obviously I know I gotta move on and talking to your ex 2-3 times a week isn't the best way of doing it, problem is that she's still my best friend (which sucks). I have been dating other girls but none of them compare (in my eyes anyway) to my ex.
She knows how I feel. She dodges the issues is the best way to put it. She did question me a few months ago on who a girl that was appearing on my facebook was. She also rang me one night in a weird mood after I'd added a girl we'd known when we were dating who was a sticking point for us. (She had also added that girl the same night). Obviously she was the one who did the breaking up. We kinda lost the intimacy in our relationship. But can I show her we can get that back? Can I even get her back?
I'd love some feedback here. Obviously I know I gotta move on and talking to your ex 2-3 times a week isn't the best way of doing it, problem is that she's still my best friend (which sucks). I have been dating other girls but none of them compare (in my eyes anyway) to my ex.