Long time to cum during sex.?

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Me and my girl recently started having sex, and the first time i didn't cum and the second time it took like an hour or more. is there a way to change this? she feels like there's something wrong with her and this is ruining our relationship.
im not nervous or uncomfortable either, i feel fine when im with her.
 
You're probably a little nervous and uptight. Try to relax. You could try having longer foreplay sessions to get you ready so to speak if she finds actual penetrative sex is lasting too long. Sometimes it can get a little sore if the guy is banging away endlessley.

Talk to her thats the key thing, tell her how much you love having sex and that if either you or she doesn't c*m it doesn't matter at the end of the day. Its all about enjoying yourselves.

Personally I wouldn't be complaining if my guy took an hour to c*m, usually all over in 10 minutes :(
 
This is weird to try and answer, but do you masturbate? If you do, does it take you longer or fast to cum?
If you c*U*m fast when masturbating, then i suggest you change the way you have sex, maybe turn on the light if you dont have it on already, or dim it for effect, maybe don't have ablanket over you just a sheet or nothing, maybe before you have sex do more forplay and touching then while you have sex kiss more and ask her to touch you more while your doing it. Just find different ways you enjoy it and you might find a way that will make you go crazy, in a good way.
Lasting long isn't a bad thing though, some women would probably love their man to last that long so you should both be happy that you canlast that long so you can mess around more because sex should be fun for you both so you should enjoy how ever long it goes for.


Good luck.
 
experiment! try new things and keep it fun and exciting. that way she wont get bored either.

but most importantly let her know that it isnt her fault.
 
Sit her down and seriously explain to her that she is beautiful and you adore her and it's not her fault at all that you can't cum. Then maybe check out with a doctor to see whats up.
 
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