If you're not ready to read a long background about me &this guy, just leave now. SO, this guy &I have been having casual sex for the past couple months now. Little did I know, he's not just a hit it &quit kindof guy, he actually really liked me &started having feelings for me... Same here, but I didn't show him or express anything like that towards him cus obviously I thought I'd look like an idiot, I thought he just strictly wanted to be F buddies.
So I'm just having sex with him &showing absolutely no affection even though he was showing alot of it me....I know, I'M SO DUMB. I was taking him for granted, so he went &found another girl. We're still having sex, but meanwhile, the nights that I wasn't at his house, this other girl was, the girl who he wasn't having sex with, the girl who he really truly has strong feelings for now
Apparently, these 2 are DATING now. Yes, DATING, WHAT THA F.
But here's the twist....I knew about them, but I didn't know they were serious. I had noo idea they were dating. So while they're dating, I was still seeing him alot... &He started kindof being hesitant about having sex with me, which was weird cus we're so attracted to eachother. Obviously this was because he has a girlfriend &didn't wanna cheat on her...But still has feelings for me, still wanted to have sex with me, still wanted to cuddle with me &hug me.
I haven't seen him in a few weeks, but he still texts me wanting to know where I am &what I'm doing &where I'm sleeping? Lol as in he wants me to go to his place. I JUST found out that him &this girl have been dating though, I found this out lastnight.
HELP MEEE!!! What do I do? Do I chase him &win him back cus I'm the one he had feelings for first? Do I just say F it &give up &let this girl have him? Should I be pissed?!
*Dating as in, in a relationship, by the way
So I'm just having sex with him &showing absolutely no affection even though he was showing alot of it me....I know, I'M SO DUMB. I was taking him for granted, so he went &found another girl. We're still having sex, but meanwhile, the nights that I wasn't at his house, this other girl was, the girl who he wasn't having sex with, the girl who he really truly has strong feelings for now
Apparently, these 2 are DATING now. Yes, DATING, WHAT THA F.But here's the twist....I knew about them, but I didn't know they were serious. I had noo idea they were dating. So while they're dating, I was still seeing him alot... &He started kindof being hesitant about having sex with me, which was weird cus we're so attracted to eachother. Obviously this was because he has a girlfriend &didn't wanna cheat on her...But still has feelings for me, still wanted to have sex with me, still wanted to cuddle with me &hug me.
I haven't seen him in a few weeks, but he still texts me wanting to know where I am &what I'm doing &where I'm sleeping? Lol as in he wants me to go to his place. I JUST found out that him &this girl have been dating though, I found this out lastnight.
HELP MEEE!!! What do I do? Do I chase him &win him back cus I'm the one he had feelings for first? Do I just say F it &give up &let this girl have him? Should I be pissed?!
*Dating as in, in a relationship, by the way