...saved for US! No ring! What to do? I'm going through this right now. I've been living with my boyfriend for over 2 years, have discussed marriage for 3 years, and yet....nothing! He hasn't even started to save for US. I'm thinking I'm getting lip service. He DOES have $9,000 in debt though....still-i don't want to ask him what's up with the ring because then he will think I'm needy! Help? He doesn't have ANYthing saved and has always struggled with bills since day 1. I'm beginning to (kinda) resent him and I know that's wrong, but don't take me for granted! How can I approach this without him blowing up at me??? He'll be 34 soon and I just turned 28.