No ring-what to do? I'm going through this right now. I've been living with my boyfriend for over 2 years, have discussed marriage for 3 years, and yet....nothing! He hasn't even started to save for US. I'm thinking I'm getting lip service. He DOES have $9,000 in debt though....still-i don't want to ask him what's up with the ring because then he will think I'm needy! Help? He doesn't have ANYthing saved and has always struggled with bills since day 1. I'm beginning to (kinda) resent him and I know that's wrong, but don't take me for granted! How can I approach this without him blowing up at me??? He'll be 34 soon and I just turned 28.
B2B------I HAVE told him he needs to set a budget and tried to discuss with him about his finances but he blows up at me so he jus creates a HUGE arguement...........
RENEE----He was the one who brought up marriage, He was the one who said we need to wtart saving, He was he one who wanted to move in, and He is the one who needs to bu the ring. I've been nodding my head for over 3 years about all of this and he doesn't even have $50 saved....and I don't even think he's begun to pay off his debt. With that being said, 'm over getting lip service!
B2B------I HAVE told him he needs to set a budget and tried to discuss with him about his finances but he blows up at me so he jus creates a HUGE arguement...........
RENEE----He was the one who brought up marriage, He was the one who said we need to wtart saving, He was he one who wanted to move in, and He is the one who needs to bu the ring. I've been nodding my head for over 3 years about all of this and he doesn't even have $50 saved....and I don't even think he's begun to pay off his debt. With that being said, 'm over getting lip service!