Lifestyle changes for a relationship to work out?

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I am currently dating/seeing a man and he says my lifestyle needs to change (drinking everyday, hanging out with men one on one, staying out all night) if I want to prove to him I am serious to persue a relationship and I am girlfriend material..
Is he playing games? What does he want from me?

He also has said my "all nighters" of going out make him feel uncomfortable.

How do I give him reassurance?

I really want this to work. However I don't want to change my life and my lifestyle to make things work with this person if it doesn't work out. Then I am screwed.

Any Advice?
I know he should accept me for how/what I am but he wants whats best for me. And Deep down I know the choices I make and my lifestyle and not what is best for me.
He also says I push away the one who truly cares about me when I stay out all night..
 
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