boyfriend instead of cheating? I'm a 38 year old gay man. I left my boyfriend a text message on Friday night saying I won't be coming home. I just need to be alone for now. He texted me back saying that he doesn't understand. But I'd rather leave him than to cheat on him. I respect him that much. If he gives me some time, I CAN indeed be the man he needs but I have a lot of lust inside of me. We've been together for 14 years. I really don't mean to hurt him but I need some time to be alone and explore other men.
I have NEVER cheated on him EVER. Because when you love someone, you shouldn't cheat. Honestly, I feel so sad now that I want to leave. My boyfriend is crying his heart to me. So many questions ran through my head. Should I leave? Stay? I have to think about MY life and what matters to me the most. The love I share with my boyfriend was genuine, so I believe he'll heal in time. I'm not saying that I'm gone for good but I have to find what life is like without him. I told him "I'm so sorry, babe" then hung up last night. Am I still wrong or did I do the right thing?
I have NEVER cheated on him EVER. Because when you love someone, you shouldn't cheat. Honestly, I feel so sad now that I want to leave. My boyfriend is crying his heart to me. So many questions ran through my head. Should I leave? Stay? I have to think about MY life and what matters to me the most. The love I share with my boyfriend was genuine, so I believe he'll heal in time. I'm not saying that I'm gone for good but I have to find what life is like without him. I told him "I'm so sorry, babe" then hung up last night. Am I still wrong or did I do the right thing?