if your married....take him for everything he has....if your not then you're dumb and you should have gotten married before you had a kid to protect it from this situation...regardless find someone better that will treat you well..
if your mans heart isn't in it then what's the point
='( im sorry to hear...hm, i think you should continue ur relationship, i know there could be tough times, but think, it would be better for your child, if he/she had both their parents around...♥...♥