Then wait and find a third, yet viable option. As it is, you are looking at serious trouble if the young one even suggests you did something inappropriate.
Picture yourself going to a job interview...
Potential employer: So, I see you are a registered sex offender. Care to give us some details.
You: Well, I was 20, and she was 14. We were in "love" at the time.
No Longer Potential Employer: Thanks for coming in. :yikes:
The same will happen every time you apply for an apartment/house rental. Many areas would not allow you within several hundred feet of public places. You would not be able to move out of the city you are in. Yet, you may not be allowed in the city you are in. Understand the severity yet?
Don't even play with this. Honestly, you have NO business hanging out with a minor who is sooo much younger than you.