Following on from my last question 'what is she thinking'...i received a call from the police, asking me to come in and sign a local agreement. She called the police stating that she asked me not to contact her which i agreed to but a week later sent a harmless email just asking how her recovery was going, wishing her well, miss her etc. The thought process behind this was just to let her know that i havent stopped caring, loving etc. She asked them not to arrest me but just to have a word with me and the officer involved had read the email which even he thought was harmless and just showed that i love and care for her dearly. So now i cant to anything and im really stuck. In the past when we have broken up, she always got back in touch after a few days but the double psychological blow of being hit by a car and not walking for ten weeks and her mother passing away in that time may mean she will need more time to come round. The officer said it seemed as though she had a few issues to deal with and the best thing to do is to give it time, he wishes that it works for us as it was by no means the typical harrassment call the police get. She also wants to return a bracelet of mine that she wore. Now i have always thought that if something is worth having its worth fighting for and friends say i should fight for her but now that ive signed that agreement what can i do? Call me crazy but i was thinking of hiring a band for an hour or so and setting up outside her house one morning to sing her a song, dont know which one, we both like guns n roses old stuff and
the killers. I really dont have a clue what to do, do i just remain passive and do nothing, just wait for her and that may never happen, or do i do the band thing which is breaking the agreement i signed but at least she will know the lengths i will go to to prove my love and who knows it may work. Seven months ago we had an arguement, she ended it then, but days later got back in touch saying that she knew that if the situation was reversed then i would forgive her and so we got back together..im now thinking whats happened to all that? all i can think is its due to the last two and a half months being the toughtest period of her life, shes angry and may come round eventually...what is a guy to do...im only guilty of one thing, doing the things that any guy who really loves and cares about his woman would do in this situation...life can be so messed up at times...two and a half months ago i was the happiest guy alive, i cant believe how quick things can change.
the killers. I really dont have a clue what to do, do i just remain passive and do nothing, just wait for her and that may never happen, or do i do the band thing which is breaking the agreement i signed but at least she will know the lengths i will go to to prove my love and who knows it may work. Seven months ago we had an arguement, she ended it then, but days later got back in touch saying that she knew that if the situation was reversed then i would forgive her and so we got back together..im now thinking whats happened to all that? all i can think is its due to the last two and a half months being the toughtest period of her life, shes angry and may come round eventually...what is a guy to do...im only guilty of one thing, doing the things that any guy who really loves and cares about his woman would do in this situation...life can be so messed up at times...two and a half months ago i was the happiest guy alive, i cant believe how quick things can change.