How important is sex to you. I hear women all the time talk about how sexy this guy is and that guy is? But women are not at strip clubs, watching porn are after sex as much as men. Also women can go such a long time without it. One women told me its about as important as shopping is to men lol. Your thoughts. Name a few things you value in a relationship much more than sex???
Ladies: How important is sex to you?
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BabeHeart
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Sex is mandatory in a relationship to me...it's quite important.
...and yes, some women go to strip clubs, but those establishments are primarily geared toward men (because men are more visual). Yes, women watch porn (I have a small collection of my own), but again it attracts men more due to the visual. Women read steamy novels with explicit sex scenes moreso than men...we can imagine whatever faces and bodies are on those people that we desire (it's porn of the mind).
Men can go as long as women without sex...anyone can. It's a desire, not a need. Nobody dies from not having sex. Some people simply choose not to go without for long, and others choose to be more particular about who they share their body with.
So you met a woman who didn't put sex very high on her priority list if she compared it to men's desire for shopping. Rest assured, there are MANY of us that put it up there with our own desire for shopping (or higher). ☺♥☻ I'd much rather spend the afternoon in bed with my lover, than go buy a new pair of shoes (and I love shoes)
...and yes, some women go to strip clubs, but those establishments are primarily geared toward men (because men are more visual). Yes, women watch porn (I have a small collection of my own), but again it attracts men more due to the visual. Women read steamy novels with explicit sex scenes moreso than men...we can imagine whatever faces and bodies are on those people that we desire (it's porn of the mind).
Men can go as long as women without sex...anyone can. It's a desire, not a need. Nobody dies from not having sex. Some people simply choose not to go without for long, and others choose to be more particular about who they share their body with.
So you met a woman who didn't put sex very high on her priority list if she compared it to men's desire for shopping. Rest assured, there are MANY of us that put it up there with our own desire for shopping (or higher). ☺♥☻ I'd much rather spend the afternoon in bed with my lover, than go buy a new pair of shoes (and I love shoes)
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PixiBunni
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The only reason women aren't that 'openly interested' in sex, is because it has only been a few decades since women even were allowed to speak nevermind have rights.
Not to mention stereotypes always detering girls from doing what they feel like, and detering men too.
I personally believe in only having sex with my fiance, and sex is a very important thing for me, both as a symbol of our love for one another, and I see it as a way of pleasure of course.
Women that say those things are either lying, because they think it's 'dirty' for a woman to say/do those things. Or because they just haven't had a good lay lmao
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Not to mention stereotypes always detering girls from doing what they feel like, and detering men too.
I personally believe in only having sex with my fiance, and sex is a very important thing for me, both as a symbol of our love for one another, and I see it as a way of pleasure of course.
Women that say those things are either lying, because they think it's 'dirty' for a woman to say/do those things. Or because they just haven't had a good lay lmao
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Miss X
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very - I need to c*m as much as my bf
Actually we do watch porn, come on! We just don't talk freely about it because society has this thing where it's acceptable if men do it and women have to be the more classier type. However it's bull on some points. But apart from sex and I have refrained for years actually looking
for the right guy not the right now guy. But I value trust, loyalty, good
conversations, feelings, someone whose funny. Just good qualities.
Sex is important but it's not that important.
for the right guy not the right now guy. But I value trust, loyalty, good
conversations, feelings, someone whose funny. Just good qualities.
Sex is important but it's not that important.
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Breathing Glass
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What makes you think women can "go such a long time without it"? I myself once went a year and it was pure hell. Maybe I'm in a minority, but sex is right on up there in my priorities.
In a relationship (since you asked), though, I do value some things more than sex; how I connect with him, how he treats me, how he makes me feel when I'm with him are some of the more important ones.
In a relationship (since you asked), though, I do value some things more than sex; how I connect with him, how he treats me, how he makes me feel when I'm with him are some of the more important ones.
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Klee
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Well, I love sex more than shopping lol. But there is more to a relationship than sex. I love a guy who I can just talk to. Have you ever been in a relationship you realized you had nothing to talk about, but had sex quite often? Yeah, dont like those. I like a guy who is romantic, and sweet, and who loves me. Someone I can do things with like going to the zoo or the park. And this is coming from someone who loves porn and strip clubs, so..
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Harriet
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Extremely important. It does vary on the woman though. Also a lot of girls think it's wrong for them to admit to liking it. That women you mention is either unusuaul or just has a lower sex drive, like some guys do too - and how do you know women can go a long time without it? Most women on this site say they look at porn. There are some strip clubs but true, fewer, people do say girls are less visually stimulated though and more into other things. In a relationship obviously how they treat you is more important though, I wouldn't stay with an abusive cheating stealing guy because the sex was good, I'd go find sex somewhere else.
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