Ladies: Have you ever judged a man based on looks?

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Ever since I can remember, before most ladies actually know me they usually judge me on my looks and make assumptions accordingly. Many have actually thought because of my emotionless face, "mean looking eyes", and I seem to have a deep frightening voice, they thought I was some psychopath that would kill them the minute they talked to me. I don't smile, I never have, never will.

But anyways, ladies are you guilty of this? And why do it? Is it fair for me even if I never do to assume an obese woman to be dirty?
Kristin: No need to mention being "mean". I've seen the harshest of the harsh from women first hand. And most women I have come in contact don't seem to care about "personality".

I'm not really looking for a relationship, and never trying. Just want to know why women can be so judgemental? Also I don't do nor conform to society's teachings of "hooking up" so either way you wouldn't see me in that situation.
 
Yes, I do. Everyone does.

It's just like you.
You judge women based on appearances first. For example, if you were looking for someone to hook up with, and there was a really cute girl, and a really ugly girl, which one would you go for? Obviously the cute one, am I right? It's the same thing for girls. I'm pretty sure everyone does this. Nobody's like, "Oh! He looks so nice and funny, I'm gonna go talk to him!" It's more like "He's so hot, I'm gonna go talk to him." You know what I mean? I'm not trying to be mean and say that looks are everything, but looks are something. Then comes the personality. :)
 
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