Ladies have you ever had an experience of grooming (or molding) a man?

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FLY GIRL

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For instance, say you meet a guy. Do you ever think to yourself, "hmmm...not perfect but he has potential." Like let's say you indirectly -with no pressure- train him to be the man you want him to be.

Then you spend time teaching him how to "improve" himself in all areas. I don't need to hear the rights or wrongs of this way of thinking, just tell me have you ever worked on a guy like this to mold him and what was the outcome.

Could you really teach an old dog new tricks? Did he change to your specifications and act the way you like?

Was he resistant to change?

Or did he change and dump you for someone else?

Please share.
Again, please read this question and answer objectively. I'm not interested in personal opinions. I am just curious of your experiences if you have some.
The thing is.. the question was addressed to women who actually tried to do this. I wanted to know what happened with that.
 
That's selfish. Why do you have to change a man to your liking? A man is not the hair on your head---you don't have the right to do anything you please to him. If someone doesn't fit the specifications of what you think a man should be, then leave him alone and find someone else who does. Trying to change a man into something he originally wasn't is low. There are plenty of women out there who will love that man just the way he is--and he deserves that.

Edit-----I did answer objectively. I put myself in a man's place rather than think of how great it would be to "train" a man to be what I want him to be. If I were that man I'd feel unworthy. No one deserves to feel like that.
 
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