Kindred Spirits |BayღEmmett| #9: "Emmett is madly in love with Bay." ~Sean

"I never paint dreams or nightmares, I only paint my own reality." That's what hangs over Bay's bed. So I ask, what is truth and what is reality? Is reality the truth or is reality just a perception?

Bay knew her reality was not the truth, even though she had no reason to perceive herself as anything but a Kennish. I'd like to argue that Bay as an intuitive person deals with truth. As an artist she knows that truth exists in art, both in the beautiful and the ugly, as aesthetics means only pleasing to the eye and this differs from one person to another. Metaphysically, of course, there is a beauty or appreciation to the ugly, and sometimes the truth is ugly. Bay has flourished with the truth -- the good, the bad and the truly ugly. The truth has challenged her as an individual, and true growth can only occur when we are challenged at our ability level. This makes Bay quite a strong character, a survivor and very capable.

Daphne's reality, on the other hand, was based on perception alone. She took things on face value. She was Regina's daughter because Regina told her so. It seems that truth is hard for her as she clings to her own brand of souped-up reality not based on truth but on perception. On the surface Regina was the perfect mother, but Regina's betrayal deserted that perception-based reality. This was a challenge to Daphne's character, but unlike Bay, Daphne didn't build character. She seems to cling to perception as reality & will not entertain truth. She turns her attention to Emmett, not because it's truth that she loves him but rather her desperate attempt to create a reality. She tells Bay she will never know Emmett, another falsehood of her perception-based reality. Even though Bay & Emmett know one another quite well, it is inconceivable for her to see reality as truth and not perception. When Bay confronted her (lapdog comment), the truth was ugly as was she in that moment ... and this is the true Daphne as opposed to the sweet Mary Sue perception she wants out there as the truth, as her reality.
 
What's everyone been up to today?

I'm ordering customized stamps for work (to make things easier one me); however, my PC is acting up! Oh, and I customized the latest Common App and printed the separate parts it it! BORING & SO MUNDANE!!!
 
I want to go to Usa! :) If everything goes the way I want to, I will probably go there this autumn :D
 
Welcome! Don't be so hard in Emmett. As has been said before, once Emmett had what he always thought he wanted, he realized that in fact that wasn't what he wanted. Daphne had always been an ideal to him; but Bay was the real day for him. In the end there really wasn't a choice that had to be made. After the kiss, he told Daphne he was with Bay. The "I just want you" scene at Buckner was Emmett winning back Bay after he fought with her at the car wash over his frustration over not hearing her (Toby & Wilke) and where his insecurity reared it's ugly head. The significance of Emmett using his voice conveyed to Bay just how much she meant to him. She knew that it had been 8 years since he used his voice- the only time he ever spoke. That is why Bay wasn't thrown when Daphne threatened her. Both Bay and Emmett have a lot if confidence in their relationship. It's very solid. Neither Melody's disapproval nor Daphne's reveal/kiss tore them apart.

Can't wait til new eps air! Is it January yet?
 
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