I know usually when this question is asked.. it's more the other way around.. it's like this.. I an engaged and i'm going to the army active duty i leave february tenth.. now me and my love are doing good. there's none of that oh my what i'm gonna do while you're training mushy stuff.. 5 months isn't long. but as a woman.. is what i'm trying to get at how does it feel being the one in camp while someone is home waiting on you.. usually the woman is the one waiting. how do you stay positive until training is over. I wouldn't mind hearing from men especially the ones who stayed home.. and also what can you do to keep him focused so far away?