Quoted for the fucking truth. I love you bitch! There is a comfortable in-between for all parties involved (and those onlookers) to be happy with, unless you're intolerable all together, and then it's not our problem; it's yours. Because when I leave, I know that there is a 99.9% chance I'll never see you again.
Keep your spoiled little brats under control or leave them at home
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roswelldreamer
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If someone was a dick about my daughter being a kid in a public place, I'd tell her to go play in their vicinity. If they make a polite request, I'd play a quiet game with her instead.
Leon_cloud8
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Im beginning to wonder if Gage has gone feral. Everytime he gets around new kids lately, he growls loudly and freaks them out. Thank goodness school starts tomorrow so he can re-socialize.
Damn skippy.
Poor Gage, forced resocialization. He probably growls because those other kids suck and he's stronger, faster, and smarter than them and doesn't want their stupid cootie parasites to get inside his brain and make him dumb like them.
At least he isn't biting them. I'm so glad none of my kids were biters. What a nasty habit.
You know what I hate? When you are in a store or restaurant and you see a kid just being a kid, especially a toddler like banging spoons on the table or blowing spit bubbles and then their mom or dad screams at them, especially derogatory stuff like "your a bad boy!" and then smacks them in front of everyone. Those people make me fucking sick to my stomach. I'd rather hear a kid pounding their hands on the table or making spit bubbles than listen to some overly stressed mom who worries more about what people will think than her own child's mental health call her kid names.
I really despise parents who call their kids names. It just irritates me to no end. I'm not going to say that I haven't let 'STOP your damn whining!" or "Quit being an ass to your brothers!" slip out once in a while out of anger, because well I'm not a perfect parent. But I would not say to my kid that they are being a bitch or an asshole. I hear parents talk to their kids like this all the time. Or stupid, or bad, or any other way of tearing a kid down just because they are curious and exploring their world or getting out frustrations.
Toddlers, btw, throw temper tantrums. Not because they are BAD--anyone who says this should be slapped--but because they lack the learned knowledge of how to verbalize their fears, frustration, and aggression. To solve toddler tantrums, I hugged my kids till they stopped, or I got next to them on the floor and did the tantrum with them. You would be surprised how fucking awesome it feels to drop on the floor and just scream your head off and pound your hands.
Poor Gage, forced resocialization. He probably growls because those other kids suck and he's stronger, faster, and smarter than them and doesn't want their stupid cootie parasites to get inside his brain and make him dumb like them.
At least he isn't biting them. I'm so glad none of my kids were biters. What a nasty habit.
You know what I hate? When you are in a store or restaurant and you see a kid just being a kid, especially a toddler like banging spoons on the table or blowing spit bubbles and then their mom or dad screams at them, especially derogatory stuff like "your a bad boy!" and then smacks them in front of everyone. Those people make me fucking sick to my stomach. I'd rather hear a kid pounding their hands on the table or making spit bubbles than listen to some overly stressed mom who worries more about what people will think than her own child's mental health call her kid names.
I really despise parents who call their kids names. It just irritates me to no end. I'm not going to say that I haven't let 'STOP your damn whining!" or "Quit being an ass to your brothers!" slip out once in a while out of anger, because well I'm not a perfect parent. But I would not say to my kid that they are being a bitch or an asshole. I hear parents talk to their kids like this all the time. Or stupid, or bad, or any other way of tearing a kid down just because they are curious and exploring their world or getting out frustrations.
Toddlers, btw, throw temper tantrums. Not because they are BAD--anyone who says this should be slapped--but because they lack the learned knowledge of how to verbalize their fears, frustration, and aggression. To solve toddler tantrums, I hugged my kids till they stopped, or I got next to them on the floor and did the tantrum with them. You would be surprised how fucking awesome it feels to drop on the floor and just scream your head off and pound your hands.
tucsonsunapt
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I get a mental image of you doing this every time you "discuss" religion on this site.
we found safety
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I too have heard that hugging a temper tantrum struck kid is a good thing. Sometimes just letting them work through it is also good. I mean, if your kid is having a tantrum and is out of control, just pull him aside and let him just get it out. Once he calms down a little, you just simply ask if he is ok to go back inside (or wherever you took him out of to get through the tantrum). Kids don't usually like being out of control and in a tantrum, but they just dont' know how to stop themselves once the anger rises up. I know some adults that can't control their anger either. Kids need to know that being angry is natural and is not a bad thing. They just need to learn tools and different ways to express their anger that may allow them to control themselves and to react better when they feel angry. Less tantrums and more even tempered. Teaching them to talk about it is a good way along with slow, deep breaths, and taking their own time outs (not ones forced by mommy or daddy, but ones they take themselves to get away from what's angering them).
The way it worked in my family is:
You don't take your kids out until they can act respectable in society. If they won't then you take them out to the car and spank them.
You can be a perfectly responsible person that can stand on their own two feet and still be considerate. Being told to be quiet in public won't turn you into a mindless drone. It'll turn you into a person that's considerate of the people around you, and we all know what kind of a shortage we're facing of considerate people.
If we fucked up, we got backhanded. We mouthed off, we got backhanded. We fucked with shit that we shouldn't have fucked with, we got backhanded.....you see the pattern here?
Sure, child curiosity is great and all, but there's better ways of handling it than letting your kids put their greasy palms all over everything that isn't theirs.
You don't take your kids out until they can act respectable in society. If they won't then you take them out to the car and spank them.
You can be a perfectly responsible person that can stand on their own two feet and still be considerate. Being told to be quiet in public won't turn you into a mindless drone. It'll turn you into a person that's considerate of the people around you, and we all know what kind of a shortage we're facing of considerate people.
If we fucked up, we got backhanded. We mouthed off, we got backhanded. We fucked with shit that we shouldn't have fucked with, we got backhanded.....you see the pattern here?
Sure, child curiosity is great and all, but there's better ways of handling it than letting your kids put their greasy palms all over everything that isn't theirs.
Blaster XL
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Thank you, kich. (And, it worked, didn't it!)
At this day and time it is considered child abuse.
I abused my daughter regularly when she was young and I will admit that she is a upstanding citizen now at 25!
Cheers!
At this day and time it is considered child abuse.
I abused my daughter regularly when she was young and I will admit that she is a upstanding citizen now at 25!
Cheers!
So you guys didn't leave the house until you were three or four, or were your parents backhanding you while you were still in diapers?
Oh, I spank my kids. But I don't think that kids making a little noise and running some energy around is really a spankable offense, since kids are naturally noisy and full of energy and I really just don't see a reason to spank kids for their nature.
Now backtalking, that'll get them an ass whooping.
PS: Now here is the difference between a kid that needs an ass whooping and a kid that is just being a kid. While in WalMart pharmacy today this little four or five year old was screaming at the top of his lungs, and repeatedly, FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU GET ME THAT TOY FUCK YOU to his mom. Now if that had been my kid, I'd be going to jail for child abuse and it would have been worth it. Also makes me wonder what kind of home life he has if he knows that type of language and its meaning at his age. Definetly needed an ass whooping.
A few minutes later these two other kids were laughing and giggling and wrestling with each other and climbing around the chairs and under the waiting line ropes. They were pretty loud, and likely annoying the hell out of the other adults, but I thought they were adorable.
Oh, I spank my kids. But I don't think that kids making a little noise and running some energy around is really a spankable offense, since kids are naturally noisy and full of energy and I really just don't see a reason to spank kids for their nature.
Now backtalking, that'll get them an ass whooping.
PS: Now here is the difference between a kid that needs an ass whooping and a kid that is just being a kid. While in WalMart pharmacy today this little four or five year old was screaming at the top of his lungs, and repeatedly, FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU GET ME THAT TOY FUCK YOU to his mom. Now if that had been my kid, I'd be going to jail for child abuse and it would have been worth it. Also makes me wonder what kind of home life he has if he knows that type of language and its meaning at his age. Definetly needed an ass whooping.
A few minutes later these two other kids were laughing and giggling and wrestling with each other and climbing around the chairs and under the waiting line ropes. They were pretty loud, and likely annoying the hell out of the other adults, but I thought they were adorable.
Leswonder!
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My dad did all the spanking in the house, but he didn't usally have to, he had the kind of voice that shook the ground and could make you cry and submit, as that's how he controled everyone.
ღaqυa мaяιneღ
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I work in women's retail and some woman brought her fucking kid in who had what was left of a chocolate bar in her hand. The rest of it was all over her face, hands, and pretty little yellow dress. The mother was a foreign tourist who spoke no english and let her kid run, unsupervised, all over the store. I was stuck trying to do damage control for like an hour as i ran behind the kid trying to keep her from getting chocolate all over the merchandise. When management went to speak to the mother all they got was the "No English" response and the bitch kept shopping.