Just when everything was starting to get better...

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I knew I shouldn't have gotten into pot. I thought, a little here and there wouldn't be too bad. Which is wasn't at all, it was fine. But I wanted more and more and got a little deeper into it. Well, I had been smoking outta homemade shit, the usual water bottle, homemade pipe. I didn't smoke much at all, once a week maybe, just a little buzz. Then I would get pushed by my brother to smoke more and buy more. So I did, I figured I was depressed at the time, and it would make me feel a bit better. Well I continued to go a little deeper into it..

Well all this is kinda irrelevant, but then again, maybe not. But, to get to the point. My close friend, very close friend, smoked too. We've known each other since grade school, dated quite a few times and even still would like to go at it. (Until now.) We didn't like to let each other acknowledge that we both smoked. It was kinda weird, like we didn't want the other one to know we did pot. But we knew in the back of our heads that we both did it.

Anyways, I was out of weed one day, and all my connections were unavailable at the time. I had no time to fool around. I had had a bad day, and I wanted something to get me up. Well I called her, to ask if she had any, turns out she deals the shit and she would give me a deal, in which she did. Time goes on and I continue to buy from her. We grow a little closer over it, had a couple stumbles, but we continued to connect. Well, a couple months ago we were talking about shit, I told her what I smoked out of and she offered to let me borrow one of her glass pipes. I declined and said it's no biggy..

Then my brother suggests we smoke outta something real, cause he's "tired" of smoking outta plastic bottles. So I borrow one from her. She specifically said to be careful with it and not to brake it. Well the dumbass brother was careless one night, drops it, and shatters it all over the floor.

Well whatta ya know, she wants it back now. ASAP, because she was caught and will be giving it to her brother. I suggested I buy it from her so she doesn't have to go through any troubles. Which would be the smart thing to do, so she doesn't have to risk getting caught AGAIN. But she yelled NO, and continued to yell. I've known her for 12 years, and not ONCE has she gotten this angered with me. I have no idea what is going on in her fucking head, but I have a feeling this stupid fucking mistake-of-a-habit is going to ruin the close friendship we used to have.

For gods sake, we just went camping last week and got closer then we ever have been, and she goes ballistic over a $15-20 pipe.

Maybe it's time to get out, out of the game, and out of her life. It doesn't seem worth it to me.

I am done with it.
 
She'll get over it dude, no worries.

I remember one time I was frantically trying to get out of my apartment, as my ex was being a fucking psycho like always. I don't know if I actually did it, or if something else happened but... basically my buddy Superman's bong ended up broken. I took the blame, regardless. First one he had ever owned, and it was the first thing he bought with this job he had hell getting. I was in too much of a hurry to tell him what happened, though I don't know how he didn't notice as he was there too. Anyways. I left the apartment asap. He calls me up, pissed the fuck off. I head to his woman's house to apologize. I thought the fucker would never talk to me again, he was livid in a way I'd never seen. Thought we were going to squab. Of course a week later, we dealt with it and eventually laughed about it.

It's a stupid fucking pipe. The weed isn't the problem, it's the idiots around you. I don't smoke anymore, and figure you shouldn't either if you think it's that much of a problem. Just don't blame the weed for the pipe. And don't worry about homegirl, she'll get over it or you're better off without her if she's that freaked out about something so retarded.
 
:yeahthat:

Moreover, it sounds like your brother's majorly at fault. He's the one who wanted to smoke out of something "real" and he's the one that broke it.

This is why I don't own glass pipes. My Mr. Sunshine's all I need.
 
I was kinda hoping that would happen with her. That she'll get over it. I just have to muster up the balls to tell her I broke it and would be willing to give her anything in return for it. (Reason being, is that, she'll think I'm trying to use my brother as a cover up or something..) I don't want to go down that road..


The weed, is not worth my time or money, if it will cause problems like this. Maybe I'm doing it wrong, or not being smart about it, but from my past experiences and experiences people have had around me, doesn't look like it will take me anywhere. It's been a long 4 years with it, I've been lucky to have not been caught, I might as well stop while I'm ahead.
 
If you're going to tell her, tell her sooner than later. It'll only get worse. Get all puppy-dog-eyed and just lay it out. Muster up a few lip quivers and sniffles if need be. It'll work out.
 
"You have given out too much Reputation in the last 24 hours, try again later"

:rofl:

I should have just told her tonight and got it over with. :indiff:

Hope she acts mature about it..
 
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You shouldnt be caring so much for a silly pipe mate, and if you think that you two are so close then why would she yell at you for breaking the pipe in such a way even though you offered to buy her a new one...?

I dont know what shes like because shes your friend, but by the sounds of it, Id just buy her a new one and forget her...
 
The weed is not the problem. You and your friend's irresponsibility is.

That said, did you consider that she's just a general wreck due to being caught and perhaps taking some (misplaced) anger out on you? Just tell her that you're sorry, take full responsibility, offer to replace it and be done with it. Leave it in her hands.
 
i believe if anything you should try to talk to her about it and try to help her with whatever it is because if she is a real friend and you care for her you shouldnt try to give up on her......so i say just try talking to her about it
 
Girls hate when you keep things from them, So in my best opinion be straight forward with it but sincere at the same time. Let her know you feel bad and you understand how she feels about it and things will get better. just dont make any lies in the situation because things just get worse that way =[ ^^ no worries man. It happens to the best of us
 
Pipes come, and pipes go. A lot of glass pipes are truly unique pieces of art, and can't simply be replaced... Whether it be due to sentimental value, or some unique quality of the pipe, or beautiful craftsmanship. Nevertheless, sometimes they get broken, and getting all bent out of shape about it doesn't do anyone any good. She'll get over it.

Offer to buy her a new pipe of comparable value. Go to the head shop with her to pick it out. That in itself can be a bonding experience and help you both get past it, and even bring you closer. That's the wonderful thing about breaking one of your favorite pipes... Getting to replace it with a cooler one.

Based on this alone, I wouldn't say you need to quit the herb, but that's your decision to make. If you think it's having a negative impact on your life, then you need to quit... But don't try to blame the pot for minor everyday fuckups. Again, it's up to you what you really want to do. I don't believe that pot fucks up the lives of everyone that does it, but you'd be hard pressed to find someone who's life is better for smoking pot.
 
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