I met this guy about a month ago and we really hit it off.(im 20 and he's 25). since then, we have been hanging out about every other day. But a bout a week in to it, we had sex(i usually don't move that fast but i just felt comfortable with him). this changed it up a bit so now i don't know what he wants from me now.every time we hang out we have sex and then we just talk and cuddle.
he has taken me out to dinner once and we had a good conversation. he said he wants me to eventually meet his family if im up to it (he also said he doesn't bring JUST anyone around) and a few days later i met his sister and grandparents but HE didn't really introduce me. Me and the family introduced each other.
Another thing, he lives with his cousin, wife and son and one day we were walking up to his room and the cousin's 4 year old son said (while pointing to me) "oh this friend always stays longer than the other friend" i didn't know what to say so i laughed it off a little so the situation wouldn't be so awkward. then a few minutes later when we were cuddling he said "You are really chill, most girls are all about drama. i just want to clear things up with you, im not an asshole and im not messing with anyone else. i don't mean to be mushy or anything but i wanted to clear it up." then he asked me if i was messing with anyone else and i told him i wasn't. but that whole incident kind of made me wonder if hes bullshitting me or not.
when were together, he mostly just talks about sex or jokes around. we don't really have good quality conversations.i just want to know what his intentions are with me and what he's all about because im starting to have feelings for him and im not looking for a booty call.
i don't want to waste my time. i just don't know how to go about bringing it up without scaring him off or thinking im trying to rush things. i just want to know his intentions so what do you think about the situation and how should i go about it
we have gone to a bar a few times and then walked along the beach after. he also mentioned going to an amusement park but with my school schedule, it would be hard to. the past month there has been stormy weather and with christmas coming up hes been saving money for gifts so there hasnt been much to do lately besides staying in.
he has no kids, he was in a 3 year relationship but it ended a year ago.
he has taken me out to dinner once and we had a good conversation. he said he wants me to eventually meet his family if im up to it (he also said he doesn't bring JUST anyone around) and a few days later i met his sister and grandparents but HE didn't really introduce me. Me and the family introduced each other.
Another thing, he lives with his cousin, wife and son and one day we were walking up to his room and the cousin's 4 year old son said (while pointing to me) "oh this friend always stays longer than the other friend" i didn't know what to say so i laughed it off a little so the situation wouldn't be so awkward. then a few minutes later when we were cuddling he said "You are really chill, most girls are all about drama. i just want to clear things up with you, im not an asshole and im not messing with anyone else. i don't mean to be mushy or anything but i wanted to clear it up." then he asked me if i was messing with anyone else and i told him i wasn't. but that whole incident kind of made me wonder if hes bullshitting me or not.
when were together, he mostly just talks about sex or jokes around. we don't really have good quality conversations.i just want to know what his intentions are with me and what he's all about because im starting to have feelings for him and im not looking for a booty call.
i don't want to waste my time. i just don't know how to go about bringing it up without scaring him off or thinking im trying to rush things. i just want to know his intentions so what do you think about the situation and how should i go about it
we have gone to a bar a few times and then walked along the beach after. he also mentioned going to an amusement park but with my school schedule, it would be hard to. the past month there has been stormy weather and with christmas coming up hes been saving money for gifts so there hasnt been much to do lately besides staying in.
he has no kids, he was in a 3 year relationship but it ended a year ago.