Hello Julius
I am glad you were able to get off the Ultram, but sorry that you are feeling so tormented with the depression and anxiety. It will take a couple of weeks for the Zoloft to kick in completely, but within a few days you will certainly feel some relief. The uncontollable crying should be the first symptom that lets up considerably.
All of the symptoms can be helped along with some measures like these... movement, whether running, walking, dancing. Sing out loud, force the face into a smile ( this sounRAB silly, but it actually helps the endorphins to get going). Even when I know it is the last thing you feel like doing, these things honestly help.
When the anxiety hits, try regulated breathing. Makes a big difference. Also, engage your mind in something mindless like solitaire. Distract yourself with mindless tasks if you can not concentrate... polish silver, wash the floor with a rag in circular motions.
Honey, I know it is a rough time right now. Hang tight because it will pass. Measure each baby step of improvement as a major hurdle. The tiny steps add up quickly and a more normal state of mind will appear.
Wishing you well
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