First of all, if you are basing your Army career off of movies, you probably shouldnt have enlisted. Now depending on your job, movies might be fairly close but the movies are movies, they are actors meant to ham up the glorious portions of the military or whatever they are doing. A ton of people want to go Airborne due to movies. If the movies were true then you would see us a couple hours before the jump, practicing, getting gear on, being inspected, sitting, sitting, sitting, loading, sitting sitting, and then jumping for that one minute. Most wives and husbands are loyal to each other but I cant say anything about yours because I dont know her. If you are in a true relationship where you both love each other and can depend on each other I wouldnt worry about it. If your wife has cheated on you before then I might worry about it and you need to fix that by either talking, seeing a counselor or divorcing her. You dont need those problems if you are deployed. If it really bothers you, talk with your wife as well. (There must be a good reason though if you are going to bring this up.) You and her will need the ability to communicate over the next couple of years as you both will face challenges of being apart, ensuring the household works and still finding time for each other. Marriage is a two person proposition. My wife is also a military officer and we have no problems talking about stuff. Welcome to the Army, Good luck at basic/AIT, best of luck with your job, and hope your wife and you enjoy the military life. There will be bumps but nothing a strong relationship cant handle.
, anyway every movie or rumor leads me to believe army and well military wives cheat when the guy is gone, i hope this isn't true and i just need a reassurance from a wife or husband that didn't cheat.