just got into a relationship, Im 19, Im used to having good sex, how do i tell him

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Ive been faking? So heres the deal, I have been sexually active with him for almost two months.I fake orgasms great, but I want to have one with him. The only reason I faked the first time was because he hurt me by accident and I just wanted it to stop. now, im in a delemma and I freaking hate faking it. It feels okay, and I tell him how i like it, and what i want but he jumps to sex thinking I have them. Ive tried the Oh it feels good when you touch here thing, or please keep going there thing, but nothing is working. how do i fix it? I hate faking... I dont want to be a year deep with him thinking he satisfys me!
okay so everyone is saying try to hint toward what I like or what not!! I have been trying! hes not getting it! Ive even done it in front of him! Ive moved his hands! Ive been on top!!! blah! This sucks....!
 
hahhahahahaha.
omg. well just take over!
and work him like hes never worked youuuuu
 
Well try talking to him he might feel sad but let him know at least. It you own body where you prefer him to do what is the best teach him.
 
I think that's the kind of thing you should communicate with your boyfriend about. And/or maybe try thinking of something else besides reaching an orgasm; how much you like him or how sexy you think he is. I had a hard time letting go and reaching my peak for while..I had to kinda fake it too, but once I just relaxed and thought about him more and how turned on I was..it was really easy for me to reach my peak.
I hope that helped! good luck!
 
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