I'm feeling like this is what I want to say to your question:
God speaks to the understanding of temporal beings, temporal beings called humans.
Yes, it is proper to think of God as a man; but he has all-knowledge. This is a key. Unlock such a door if you can.
He speaks the language of eternity.
You, on the other hand--with all due respect, are next to nothing.
So, don't be disturbed to find that God does hate
people who do wrong with evil intentions.
They will reap what they sow. He will darken their minds,
he will allow the spirit of evil--so far as they choose it--to lead them into spiritual death and bondage, the bondage of "want to, but can't." That is hell.
All you need to do is repent of your sins, declare repentance to others, and seek God with all your heart.
I am you.