Jail Bait? Could it work?

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Alex

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I have been absolutely infatuated (Not quite in love but as close as I can get )with this guy for about 3 years. He's my close friend, and my male best friends brother. I am 16. He is 23.
But I want him. And I think he wants me. I know we couldn't have a public relationship. Nobody could find out. But I haven't dated anyone because I'm so attracted to him. And He hasn't dated a girl because he says not all of them are as awesome as me.
I'm Extremely mature for my age. Physically, sexually, mentally, and emotionally.
I'd prepare and be ready for sex or any kind of intimate actions.

But the question is, Should I and how do I go about pursuing this? Would it destroy our friendship? I'm mature enough to have the "whatever happens, happens" outlook. But could he?

PS. Last night we were really flirtatious and crude with each other but he later mentions he won't touch a girl under 19.
But I'm not an average 16 year old. All my friends are in college and in their 20s. Nothing is wrong with him, he's had girlfriends but they treated him badly.
 
well I think you should look else were because I would hope that he has enough sense not to have sex with someone under 18.. he could go to jail..and think about it a 23 year old messing with a 16 year old?
whats wrong with him?if he did?

just try and find someone else or if you are still both single when you are 18 see how it goes...
 
Ask yourself what is wrong with a 23 year old that can't find someone his own age to date? I know you think your ready, but I'm sorry your not. You have alot of emotional growth from 16 to 23, and if he's hitting on you he's taking advantage of your hormones. go ahead and flirt, but keep your pants on and stay away from him. If you were my daughter and something did happen and it went bad (pregnancy) I would prosecute he poaching self. And I am a adult with a 19 year old daughter and if some guy played with her at your age, he'd find himself on the receiving end of my wrath and most likely get a beating or jail. maybe both. think aabout it. good luck
 
It sounds like you're pretty sure you want to pursue it, i don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you consent to the relationship and take on board the fact that he will probably want different things to you in one way or another, whether it's physically or mentally.
I think you should talk to him about it if it's possible to bring it up, it's possible it could ruin your friendship but if you're already close friends you should be fine, especially if you're mature. At least if you take the chance then you know you tried, and didn't waste a possible chance for something good.
Just make sure you're careful, and don't do anything you're not ready to.
Hope that helps!
 
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