I've never dated... is that lame? Plus would it be weird to date someone older?

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killercandy12

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First you must ask yourself, which boy do i like better?
If it helps write down pro's and con's for each of them and total them up.
I personally don't think that age matters in this case. If anything it would help you to find your age preference, it'll tell you whether are mature enough to date older boys.
If you are comfortable with him then age will never cross your mind. Being on the same wave length is a much more important quality.
If this guy is serious about getting to know you better then i'm sure your inexperience won't matter to him. I mean you have to start somewhere don't you.

If you want to reconnect with your old crush then why don't you ask him to get a drink or go to the cinema or something together after football or maybe walk home together?

i hope i helped.
xx
 
First you must ask yourself, which boy do i like better?
If it helps write down pro's and con's for each of them and total them up.
I personally don't think that age matters in this case. If anything it would help you to find your age preference, it'll tell you whether are mature enough to date older boys.
If you are comfortable with him then age will never cross your mind. Being on the same wave length is a much more important quality.
If this guy is serious about getting to know you better then i'm sure your inexperience won't matter to him. I mean you have to start somewhere don't you.

If you want to reconnect with your old crush then why don't you ask him to get a drink or go to the cinema or something together after football or maybe walk home together?

i hope i helped.
xx
 
So I graduated a year early and am now attending community college. I still have a big crush on a kid back in high school who's my same age but I hardly get to see him so I don't know how that would work. :/ Anyway I'm 17 and have never had a boyfriend just because I never wanted one at the time. I would now though but do college guys think it's weird if a girl is so inexperienced with dating? Cause there's this guy in college who goes somewhat out of his way to talk to me even if he is a bit shy about it and I don't know if he's just friendly or if he actually likes me. He's probably like 19 or 20 though and would that be way weird for my first boyfriend? Should I try to find someone my own age first to see what I want in a boyfriend since I still have a big crush on the guy in high school? How could I reconnect with my old crush if I only see him play football every Friday and sometimes I see him at volleyball games?
 
I think age doesn't matter. It is the person that does and it doesn't matter whether you have dated before or not, but i wouldn't start a relationship with someone when you have feelings for another. Its not fair to all involved.
 
LOL @ Kanye West. HAHAHAHHAHAHAH

okay, anyways, I'm 16 and i've never had a boyfriend either. For the same reason as you! Its not weird, at least I don't think so. If you realize, some smart guys actually do like girls who haven't had like tons of boyfriends. Alot of guys like the fact that they get to be your first. I don't think that 19 or 20 is too old, in fact, I think its much better than someone around 17 or 18. Just coz, they are a bit more mature :D
 
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