this time period but we alway? I've been talking to a girl for almost a year..,we have broken up about 3 time n this time period but we always got baq together. This is my first real relationship I would say. She tells me she love me so much I tell her I love her to but idk if it is real love.(y do i love her,y her.,etc..I can never answer) I really want to know if I really love her...I don't want to break up with her because the thought of us breaking up hurts me(there's a feeling I get).plz help me I dont want to go on n life living a lie..,I have no father or mother to talk to about things like this..,whats love? How do u know if it's real..