I've been invited by my boyfriend's family to go with them on a camping trip by...

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Jamie

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...the Oregon Coast over July 4th? The question is should we? He says they go ever year and there is a great fireworks show on the evening of July 4th. We will be staying until Monday morning when we will return. His mom and dad, he and i and youngest sister are going. His 15 year old sister will be staying with her best friend's family. It appears that we will REALLY LUCK OUT!!! His mom and dad along with his sister will be sharing the large tent they have. They will pitch another tent and He and I will get to share lol lol. We'll REALLY GET TO SHARE!!!

I asked my mom if I could go because my family does not know her family plus his mom wanted to meet me first. This evening his mom and my mom went out to dinner along with us and they really hit it offf big time!!! Ok we are both adults, my love is 18 and I'm 19 but the reality is that we are still both dependent on our parents financially and emotionally both. We met this Summer in summer school in my community college that I attend. My boyfriend goes to the state college.

Ok, now the big problem. I think both my parents and his parents suspect that their respective son is gay but they are not willing to accept it as a fact. My mom keeps reminding me that I'm old enough to date girls and I think that when both moms saw their two "femmy" looking sons together they kind of knew. We tried to act more masculine at dinner tonight but not sure it worked. I'm worried that somehow they might realize that we are sharing each other in a way that friends dont usually do because the tents will be really close together. How would I resist the temptation to make love to him if we are in the same tent at night and stop my temptation to enter him? What if they hear some moaning or whimpering sounds from our tent?
 
Normally, I would write you a book for an answer, but in this case, I think I will keep it short.

First of all, I definitely think you should go on the trip. Not only will you be spending quality time with your boyfriend, but also, you will get to know his family a little bit better.

Now, if you are really worried about them hearing you in the tent next door, then you will just have to have some self control. Maybe just make out, or you can have oral sex (IDK about you, but I can have oral sex quietly, both giving and receiving). If none of these sound like viable options and you really want to have sex, then go ahead and do it. Try to keep it as quiet as possible though, so that you don't "corrupt" his sister.

Good luck!

Oh and who said that you had to do it in the tent? Take a blanket and a flashlight and go find a nice place in the night, or go "hiking" together during the day!
 
Well most likely they suspect. But as to having sex on a camping trip--- not a good thing to do any anal stuff at all, since shower facilities are often not available or adequate to do the job. So sure, if the night is dark and you are both alone in the tent, and the insects are noisy, have some good fun but probably don't want to do much more than mutual oral.
 
Maybe you two can make out and keep it at that but if you can get away with more... more power but try to keep it quiet, lol
 
Can't you guys just move your tent like far away...or go off in the woods..... and just come back later...that way...their will be no tent loving lol
 
I agree, go on the trip, it sounds like alot of fun and really a great time to spend with him and his family! Also, try the "hiking" idea haha..or go fishing or stargazing at night..alone haha
 
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