I've Been Feeling Really "weird" Lately... Can Someone Please Give Me Some Advice...?

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I am 14, turning 15 later this year. I started my period about 3 years ago, but lately I have wanted to "do it" like crazy. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. My mom passed away, my dad is gone, my grandpa is away for a few months, and all that is left is my little brother & grandma who had to have surgery performed "down there" after my mom was born, so she can't really help... Anyways, I am not into the whole fingering idea, and I don't want to have sex. I am WAY too young for that, and don't plan to for a few years. If anyone has some advice to help me not feel this urge...... please help. I can't sleep, I wake up drenched in sweat, and haven't done my homework some nights because it's just too distracting. I will shake, and I can't sit still most of the time. Just please give me some kind of advice to help this feeling stop for now, or just go away for a while... Thank you.Sarah

 

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well unfortunately there isn't any real way to relieve the sexual tension you are feeling outside of masturbating. having sexual urges is all part of going through puberty, at some points you will feel very sexually excited while other times you won't feel a thing. if you really want to relieve it masturbation is a perfectly normal thing to do, there is no need to be ashamed or embarrassed about doing it. peace

 

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Try masturbating, really!use a vibrator on your clitoris area, search for diagrams on the internet to find out where it is.You wont be dissapointed

 

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it's more than likely ovulation. that is the time before your period when you are suppose to try to have kids. it's like your body preparing itself for sex. maybe you could talk to one of your friends? at least you are being smart and deciding you are too young for sex right now. goood for you. unfortunately for you can't not "feel this urge". that's life, try masturbating seriously. that's the only thing that will make it go away [momentarily lol] and there are other ways to do it besides using your finger. try that other person's suggestion up there about the vibrator.