It's weird I do it unconsciously but it's true help?

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Sadia A

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Ive been crazy for this guy for like.. what two years.. I havent told him. but he's just this really really really nice person. Ive been like OBSESSED with him.. up to the point I thought of getting professional help cuz I thought I was going insane.. and the truth is I can't forget him. as much or as less as I try. everytime I see him or whatever I unconsciously start to like dip my nails on my skin.. kinda like hurting my self. cuz like i just CANT accept the fact that he's not mine. please help me. WHAT CAN I DO?
No I wouldn't do ANYTHING TO HURT HIM. you don't understand.. I'll hurt my self but NEVER hurt him. and that includes stalking. I couldnt stalk him because he wouldnt like that .. you dont understand that my obsession is all about his happiness. the reason why hurt myself is because i cant have him
and answering the second comment no im not arab what does being an arab have anything to do with this.
and answering the second comment no im not arab what does being an arab have anything to do with this.
to TRE: thanks youre advise was somewhat what I was looking for. I just really need to get over him and start looking at others.. so thanks!
 
You probably dip your nails as a sort of way of releasing your lust for him because you can't release your feelings by kissing his face off. This is pretty normal, but the fact that its been going on this long, its clearly becoming a bit of a problem and it must be quite frustrating to not be able to get him out of your head. Another way to release your feelings is to right about him in a diary. I've been obsessed with people but it's never gone on for more than about 10 months. This was one boy. I don't really know how you get over them but just try to be truthful to yourself and realise that you are wasting your attention and time on this one boy when there are better people out there. And I know it feels like they are the only person and that they are the most gorgeous person in the world but trust me... he is just a person. Try to span your focus by looking at other men that you think are nice and eventually you will enjoy being obsessed with just men in general rather than this one boy. Just force yourself to fancy other men and eventually you will learn how to obsess healthily. It's ok to like someone and get frustrated that you can't have them but don't let it take over your life and mind.
 
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