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Thanks everyone for all the support. It helps alot, even though I just know you through a website. We are going to donate her body for cancer research, her cornea's (sp?) are going to help one or two people see, which is a bit ironic considering how damn blind she was. She will be cremated and her ashes spread out at sea. It does ease me to know she isn't in pain anymore and that she died peacefully and loved.
 
I am REALLY sorry to hear about your loss man. I know how much it hurts, and I can also understand the "numb" feeling. It happened with my dad. He passed away of cancer when I was 20 years old. I think the only reason why I didn't dissolve into a quivering pile of goo, was because I had been expecting it for the last 7 months when we first found out that the cancer was inoperable. Just as with my mom, I took care of my dad for the last 3.5 to 4 months of his life.

All I can say bro' is, if you need someone to talk to about things, I am usually here. Just IM me ok?
 
kokorami, You have my absolute deepest condolences, and sympathy. I lost my father to Cancer, when I was 15. I remember him though as the 6 foot 2 inch, strong, and active man he was up untill about a year before he died. I remember all the good times we had. Death can take him from me, but nothing can take his memory, or my love for him.

My advice to you is find strength in your family and friends, as well as ofer strength to your Mom's other loved ones who need it. Sometimes the best way to deal with the loss, is to help others through it as well. The thing to remember, is you're not alone in your sorrow.

The missing her will never go away, but time will heal the pain. I promise you.
 
You know I'm here if you want or need to talk. Or even if you just need someone..there. I'm here. Just please, for the love of a non-existant god, don't hold it all in.
 
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