It feels like my life is honestly never going to get better or change ?...?

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Sophie

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I know everyone has highs and lows in their life point but mine seem to come on time periods.. but it always seems like the lows last alot longer. Im 16 and most of my friends have got boyfriends + only seem to care about them. It feels like im never going to get one at this rate ... and my friends are going through stuff with other friends .. i dont get invited out much anymore either. I know people say make new friends but its not as easy as it sounds... it just feels like lifes going down the drain slowly and i dont know what to do about it ?
 
relax girl have patience.. ur only 16 .. u have forever!! ur going to meet tons of people and the right guy will come to u one day.. dont worry.. jus focus on ur classes right now get good grades.. once u get into college its certain u'll meet tons of people.. and maybe ur future man :] lol good luck. hope i helped
 
relax girl have patience.. ur only 16 .. u have forever!! ur going to meet tons of people and the right guy will come to u one day.. dont worry.. jus focus on ur classes right now get good grades.. once u get into college its certain u'll meet tons of people.. and maybe ur future man :] lol good luck. hope i helped
 
Go to a doctor and rule out hormonal changes causing depression.
Same with a therapist.
If you choose a behavioral therapist then he/she can help you change your behaviors and
be happier.
The same old advice still works.....pretend you are happy.
 
mabey you should try going to acting classes? iv tried it + it has built my confidence.
if you do feel really bad, (f you dont wear make-up) mabey you could apply some make-up on yourself. Also ask boys out for yourself dont wait for someone to ask! xx
 
i was the same way when i was your age. you feel left out because you dont have a boyfriend. This also makes you depressed.. When i was in high-school all i cared about was having a boyfriend. Unfortunatly i wanted a boyfriend so bad i ended up dateing a complete loser for 4 years that emotionally abused me, and made me feel like i had to stay with him otherwise i would be all alone. The truth is YOU DONT EVEN NEED TO THINK ABOUT BOYS UNTIL YOUR 25! im 23 now and i look back on all those years i wasted in high-school on that dumb ass. You need to be out at football games, partys, making new friends, getting good grades and extra cirricular activities. If you waste your high-school years on a boy you will regret it, trust me I DO!

P.S. you definetly wont want a bf in college!
 
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