i do get it. my grandmother lost her would-be husband in the war, her family lost alot of people in WWII. And she used to tell me stories about how much he meant to her. And even though he was killed she still harbours no ill will towards the people who did it. Maybe because as you lot think she is a pussy, but i think she is a strong minded person, someone who isn't an uncivilised prick with that stupid eye for an eye notion we have had for thousands of years thats caused nothing but shit.