Therefore, merely because Israel is a 'westernized democracy' it doesn't mean they automatically deserve our support? Good idea, because all pragmatic looks upon the situation says American neutrality is a better position, since it allows America to distance itself from everything the Israelis do, which usually ends up making the Islamic world more and more radicalized.
Most people fail to realize that in every country outside of the United States, Israel is a controversial state due to both its actions and the methods that led up to its existence, of course, the US media is run by Zionists and tends to praise everything Israel does, they could probably round up every civilian in Lebanon and kill them and no one in the US would protest, and those who did would be called terrorist sympathizers.
I highly reccomend watching BBC for news if you want a look at the situation which is much more unbiased.